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How does one succeed in life?

08.06.2025 20:23

How does one succeed in life?

Does not procrastinate.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why won't Canada build their own fighter jet?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why do people say "tall, dark, and handsome" when they actually mean "tall, white, and handsome"?

Do not set goals—set systems.

That's it for today.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why is there so much hate against black people?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Making more friends is a goal.

What I need from you?

Why are Americans obese? Is it the food or is it the psychology?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Atheists who have read the Bible and think that contains immoral things, why do you assume that?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Is Pampano safe to eat?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Ask yourself:

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Can you turn 150 pages into a 5 minute presentation before a meeting?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.